Thanksgiving is a great time to reflect on all of life’s blessings and to truly evaluate what you are thankful for in life. But before you head home to celebrate this holiday with your family, consider taking the time to celebrate and give thanks for all the amazing friendships you’ve made here at SMU and host the perfect Friendsgiving for you and your friends.
Hosting a Friendsgiving is a great way to gather your friends all in one place, and ensure you get to spend quality time with them before the stressful last weeks of finals before winter break. Invite all your friends over and enjoy an evening of good food and good company!
Here’s your guide to hosting the perfect Friendsgiving party.
Before everyone comes over for the big day, there’s a bit of preparation that needs to take place.
Figure out how many guests you want and how many your space can accommodate. You don’t want people having to sit on the floor if you can help it!
Make sure to clear space for tables and chairs. If you don’t have enough tables and chairs, try finding a friend who can lend you some folding tables or chairs! Or you can get creative; use a coffee table as a table and have people sit on cushions.
If you’re wanting an easier clean up, opt for paper plates and plastic utensils. But if you want a bit of a nicer feel to the event, take out some of your dishware and cutlery. It may take a little bit longer during clean up, but it’ll make for a much better dining experience (and it’s a little nicer to the environment too!)
If you’re really wanting to go all out, create an invitation! Whether it’s a paper invite or a digital invite, this will definitely give your event a nice touch. If that’s a little too much effort on your part though, no worries. A simple text in a group message will also work. Make sure to include the date, time, location and any other important information (i.e. if everyone should bring a dish/side)
To add to the ambiance, find some fall/Thanksgiving inspired decorations to hang around the dining room area. This can really give the space a nice feel. Check out Target’s website for some cute decorations.
Adding place cards to you table is a great way to make sure everyone feels welcomed and like they have a designated space. Of course, people can feel free to switch up their seats, but having place cards is a simple touch that can elevate the look of the dining table!
Now that you’ve done some prep work, it’s time to focus on the main event…the food! If you really want to host the perfect Friendsgiving, then the food has to be superb – it is the star of the show after all.
First, determine your menu. Grab a pencil and notepad (or the iphone notes app will do) and write out every dish you want and how much food is needed. Be sure to consider dietary needs when making this list. (gluten free, vegan, etc.)
If you’re not sure what recipes to make or if want a little inspo, here are a few recipes that look absolutely delicious! Click on the title to view the recipe.
A Thanksgiving essential.
The perfect recipe for vegans and meat-eaters alike, this lentil loaf is a great alternative main dish if you want to skip the turkey.
What’s Thanksgiving without a slice of pecan pie?
Now that you’ve got the menu done, you need to decide just how these dishes are going to end up on your plate. If you’re in a Gordon Ramsay/Top chef kind of mood, then you may want to cook the entire meal yourself. While it’s quite the undertaking, it can also be very rewarding (provided you don’t burn everything)! But a simpler, and perhaps more fun option, is to go potluck style. Everyone can bring a different dish and contribute to the meal. This allows for different types of dishes to be incorporated into the evening, each with their own unique flare. It also can help ensure that everyone’s dietary needs are covered.
And pro tip: when all the festivities are over, make sure to send your friends home with some leftovers. That way, you aren’t stuck eating the same meal for the entire next week!
During dinner, it’s really all about enjoying the food and the conversation. So no need to have anything planned. But if you do want to incorporate a little something into the meal time, you can go around and have everyone say something they are grateful for. It’s a good way to get people thinking and reflecting.
Provided everyone isn’t in a food coma at this point, here are some fun games and activities you can do after your delicious meal that may make the food digest a bit easier.
Follow this simple guide to host the perfect Friendsgiving and to ensure that you spend quality time with your family and your friends this holiday season!
We hope your Thanksgiving is wonderful and full of delicious food, but if mingling with your extended family has you anxious, check out this article on how to avoid a Thanksgiving disasters.